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You meet someone at a party who catches your eye and strike up a conversation.
Soon, the innocent banter between the two of you seems to be going well enough that it starts to get personal. Just the thought of knowing how to answer what feels like an interview questions and having to come up with the right things to say that will sound interesting enough to get her to like you without seeming rehearsed can send you into a mild panic.
Remember the purpose of these "getting to know you" questions is to see if you can give an honest ing about yourself without sounding boring or conceited. Keep in mind the person in front of you is not looking for a chronological list of your storied accomplishments. They are looking to see what your interests are; your likes and dislikes; what makes you tick.
She likes what sees on the outside, but she wants to know if what she hears matches what she sees. She will want to see passion and enthusiasm about the things you enjoy the most.
Therefore, she may wonder, how will you be passionate about being with her? You want to keep your answer to between one to two minutes. Anything longer than that will seem more like bragging or rambling.
Plus, you want to allow enough time to inject your own question in between. When she asks you about yourself, she also wants you to be just as interested in her. While you are telling her your story, you want to look for any non-verbal clues she gives because that will keep the conversation going around the topic she seems interested in. This will do two things. It will show her the activity that you really enjoy the most and it will help you determine if you have something in common.
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